"That so many people can profit off these sex workers, and yet not extend the same human rights to them – it's this stark inequality that drives me."

In the 10 years that Vanessa Ho has been with Project X &ndash; Singapore's only non-profit that assists the country's sex workers &ndash; she has seen first-hand how poorly they are treated, and how little aid, and sympathy, is extended to them.
There are the women who are "locked up" in their apartments by employers in the daytime, and who are released only to perform their hostess duties come evening. Women who come to Singapore believing they are here to be waitresses, and who end up being coerced into sex work through intimidation and peer pressure. And there are those who fall prey to abuse and exploitation &ndash; simply because they have no one else to turn to in a foreign land.
<iframe frameborder="0" height="800" scrolling="no" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/CTRy3-5hkGw/embed" width="100%"></iframe>"Whenever I heard those sorts of stories from sex workers, I'd be furious," says Ho. "I'd be jumping up and down. I'd fly into these rages. And it was very easy for people to dismiss me because of that anger &ndash; I got a lot of comments like: 'She's just an angry woman.' Or, 'she's not rational.' People telling me my anger isn't valid? That made me even more angry."
These days, Ho understands that her passion for advocacy is better channelled through healthier means: "I've gone to therapy, I've done self-help reading. I mean, that sort of anger burns yourself, too."
But her dedication to attaining equal rights for sex workers hasn't diminished in the least. "That so many people can profit off these sex workers, and yet not extend the same human rights to them &ndash; it's this stark inequality that drives me."
<iframe frameborder="0" height="800" scrolling="no" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/CQi0gDEsJ05/embed" width="100%"></iframe>After the KTV clusters emerged in July, there was a lot of vitriol directed at sex workers, especially Vietnamese women. What did you think about that?
The one dimensional portrayal of Vietnamese women often erases the fact that some of them were exploited, to some extent, into sex work.
We don't see enough protection for the workers in KTVs. Many of the girls are heavily in debt when they come to Singapore. They would have paid some kind of broker somewhere to facilitate this. Just like foreign workers. The difference is that they are stigmatised, there is a taboo surrounding their work &ndash; so they don't dare to come forward, to tell people that they are suffering.
A lot of them are forced to work under conditions that are unideal. The thing we saw most commonly is that they're forced to drink copious amounts of alcohol. I've heard of stories where&nbsp;girls have had to drink an entire bottle of whiskey in a night &ndash; and then they black out for two days. Because that's their quota, and every night they have to hit that quota.
<iframe frameborder="0" height="800" scrolling="no" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/CC3WMSrHBL9/embed" width="100%"></iframe>Some of the girls that we've met in KTVs cannot hit that drinks quota &ndash; then they will just be pressured to provide sexual services. Many of them come here thinking it's just waitressing &ndash; they don't mind drinking with customers, but having to provide sexual services is clearly crossing a line.
But they don't tell people, because they know that to some extent, it's illegal. Their bosses tell them, "Look, who can you go to? I'm your support system." I have told these women, let's go to the police. But they'll say: No, no, no. I have debt. They know my family back home. They threatened to use black magic. That's all psychological coercion. We have to spend lot of energy just convincing them: "Yes, let's go to the police."
Some women don't want to talk at all. They don't trust us, which is fair enough &ndash; I understand where they're coming from. It's a big leap of faith. But it goes to show how disempowered these women are &ndash; and that just means that people can get away with a lot of things.
<iframe frameborder="0" height="800" scrolling="no" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/CDBvwfOnEMq/embed" width="100%"></iframe>You've been with Project X for almost a decade. What keeps you going?
I also feel like we are fighting for very logical things &ndash; human rights for sex workers. We're not out here trying to shoot a rocket into the moon, you know? I always thought that the customers of sex workers would be on our side. I don't know why I was so naive. [laughs] But no. Some of them are like: "I won't even go on record saying that I'm a customer of a sex worker, because of the stigma." That so many people can profit off these sex workers and yet not extend the same human rights to them &ndash; it's this stark inequality that drives me.
I've done this for nine years. In that time I've also learned how to take care of myself better. I think in the early days I was very explosive. Whenever I hear the stories that women tell me &ndash; you know, what they go through and everything &ndash; I'd be furious. I'd be jumping up and down, I'd fly into these rages. But over time I've gone to therapy, I've done self-help reading; I mean, anger burns yourself too, right?
So that anger spiralled. And it did burn me, many, many times. Especially in the first four or five years of my career &ndash; I was chain smoking, drinking like crazy. But then I realised it's not healthy, and I had to take care of myself first. Because that is the ultimate form of resistance: I won't let you put me down, I won't let you break me.
<iframe frameborder="0" height="800" scrolling="no" src="https://www.instagram.com/p/CCGeJzeHgx_/embed" width="100%"></iframe>Where do you hope Project X will lead?
As long as the sex industry exists, I feel like there should always be somebody to remind people that they are also human beings, and that they should be entitled to basic human rights and labour rights.
I hope one day people will come to us and say, 'How can we protect sex workers?' As of now, it's more like: 'How can we protect Singapore?' Which is a fair question too, but you need to ask both. It is not a zero sum game. It doesn't mean that when sex workers have rights, Singaporeans automatically have less rights. It's not a pie to be cut &ndash; we can all enjoy better living conditions.
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Photography Joel Low
Styling Gregory Woo
All jewellery Tiffany &amp; Co.
Styling Assistant Adelynn Wong
Hair and Makeup Wee Ming using Anti Collective and Nars Cosmetics.

Vanessa Ho wears Tiffany T1 18k gold narrow hinged bangle, Tiffany T1 18k white gold narrow hinged bangle with diamonds, Tiffany T1 18k gold ring, Tiffany T1 18k white gold ring with diamonds, Tiffany T1 18k gold narrow hinged bangle with diamonds, Tiffany T1 18k gold wide hinged bangle, Tiffany & Co.; trench coat, Dior.

Project X Director Vanessa Ho wants to use her anger for good

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